All Things Come to Us Through Grace: Kularb’s Reflection on Working with Abdi

14 November 2025

Bangkok, Thailand – 

As JRS celebrates 45 years, I find myself thinking of people like Abdi, people whose stories shaped not just our work, but who I am as a person. Walking with him through his challenges was humbling. His strength, despite everything he had faced, reminded me that accompaniment transforms both sides. 

What does accompaniment mean to you? 

As a URP (JRS) staff member, accompaniment is very meaningful to me. 

Living and working in Thailand as a foreigner, I cannot do everything on my own. There are many things I need to learn and adapt to. For me, accompaniment means learning together, sharing with each other, and growing side by side. It creates a working environment where I can both give and receive the gifts of life. 

Accompaniment also connects my past, my present, and my future. 

When I look back, I always keep Father Pedro Arrupe, the founder of JRS, in my heart. His vision continues to inspire me, as do all the people who have worked tirelessly for the JRS mission. 

Through accompaniment, I find God’s will and discover a better version of myself through both giving and receiving. 

The people I encounter at JRS bring deep joy to my heart, and I feel blessed that God has entrusted me with serving those who feel hopeless, helpless, or alone here in Thailand. 

I truly believe in the African proverb: 

“If you want to go fast, go alone; if you want to go far, go with others.” 

Being accompanied by my leaders, my co-workers, and the people we serve is a blessing. It allows me to learn, to love, and to be loved as we walk this journey together. 

 Do you feel accompanied by fellow JRS friends, and how do you accompany the people we serve? 

Yes, I really do. 

My sense of being accompanied comes from the experiences we have gone through together. 

URP has faced many changes and challenges. In December 2019, we shifted from in-person service to online support because of COVID-19. Then, at the beginning of 2025, we faced another challenge when funding from the USA was cut. During those times, we were honest with the people we serve, and we supported each other through listening, praying, and staying hopeful. I felt very accompanied by my JRS friends during these moments. 

For me, URP’s work is a living example of accompaniment. All of us, from leaders to staff to the people we serve, standing together with one mind, one heart, and one hope. 

I also accompany the people we serve. 

Every day as a caseworker is a chance to meet people with care, compassion, and respect, to listen to their needs, understand their situations, and find ways we can support them within our capacity. I do this with prayer and respect for each person I meet. 

One colleague who truly reflects the spirit of accompaniment for me is Abdi. 

Working with him has shown me what it means to serve others with humility and kindness. He is always ready to help supporting me, supporting our colleagues, and supporting the people we serve. His calm and gentle presence brings peace to everyone around him. 

To me, he is someone who lives the heart of JRS through the way he accompanies others. His example inspires me every day.